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尼克胡哲演讲稿,尼克胡哲励志演讲视频(中英文)

时间:2015-07-24 来源:阅来网

 
  尼克·武伊契奇(Nick Vujicic),香港译名为力克·胡哲,虔诚的基督徒,1982年12月4日生于澳大利亚墨尔本,塞尔维亚裔澳大利亚籍基督教布道家,“生命不设限”(Life Without Limits)组织创办人、著名残疾人励志演讲家。他天生没有四肢,但勇于面对身体残障,创造了生命的奇迹。尼克·胡哲出生于1982年12月4日。他一生下来就没有双臂和双腿,只在左侧臀部以下的位置有一个带着两个脚趾头的小“脚”,他妹妹戏称为“小鸡腿”,因为尼克家的宠物狗曾经误以为那个是鸡腿,想要吃掉它。看到儿子这个样子,他的父亲吓了一大跳,甚至忍不住跑到医院产房外呕吐。他的母亲也无法接受这一残酷的事实,直到尼克·胡哲4个月大才敢抱他。父母对这一病症发生在他身上感到无法理解,多年来到处咨询医生也始终得不到医学上的合理解释。

  尼克·胡哲从17岁起开始做演讲,向人们介绍自己不屈服于命运的经历。随着演讲邀请信纷至沓来,尼克胡哲开始到世界各地演讲,迄今已到过35个国家和地区。他还创办了“没有四肢的生命”组织,帮助有类似经历的人们走出阴影。2007年,尼克胡哲移居美国洛杉矶,不过演讲活动并没有停止。他计划去南非和中东地区演讲。他用带澳大利亚口音的英语告诉记者,“我告诉人们跌倒了要学会爬起来,并开始关爱自己。”
尼克·胡哲
 
  2012年,尼克·胡哲在河南激情开讲“活出生命的奇迹”,当地多家高校的大学生还有许多企业家感受了这位年轻人的生命激情。

  以下是尼克胡哲演讲稿中文版(第一部分)
 
  "多谢,多谢各位,各位早晨,早晨,大家好吗?大家都好吗?我名叫力克胡哲,很高兴和大家见面,我的轮椅就在那边,它是我的宝马BMW7系列,我打算带它参加,旧车翻新节目,把车轮换成自转的,大家知道有些翻新车,换上了油压升降系统吗?知道他们行走时会弹跳吗?我想把我的轮椅做到同样效果,在过马路时弹跳起来发出怦怦响声,能够这样做,真酷!"
 
  "我是生来没有手和脚的,在医学上也找不出原因,我没有四肢,但我有这"小鸡腿",称它为"小鸡腿",因为它真的很像,另外,我家的狗也以为它是鸡腿,告诉大家有趣的事,我的狗会走过来,吃我的"小鸡腿",我就在它头上打了好几趟,真疯狂!真酷,我喜爱游泳,我可以像救生衣一样浮起来,也可以垂直浮着,我的"小鸡腿"是马达,让我全速开动前进(学发动机的嗡嗡声)."
 
  “人们第一次见到我时会感到很有趣,真酷,而小孩子会极度海派,你知道为何吗?曾有一位小男孩看见我,到我面前说:发生了什么事?(拉长音),我上前对他说:是香烟。又有一位小女孩看见我,便说:妈妈,看!外星人!于是我上前去吼叫(发出吼叫的声音,哇``),她便尖叫(啊``)!我追着她,说:我要吃掉你!(台下一片笑声),吓坏了她。”
尼克·胡哲演讲
 
  “我能用这啸叫掌写字,这是我的笔,我又会用它来写字,打字,画画。做很多事情,非常酷!(顺势把笔抛到身后,台下又一阵笑声。)我也能在一般的电脑上一分钟打43个字,这就是脚趾和脚跟的搭配,(晃动小鸡腿)另外,我正在用它学习手语,准备好了吗?(竖起脚掌)这代表和平(台下又是一片笑声),真酷吧!”
 
  “无论如何,今天是很开心的日子,我要告诉大家最有趣的故事,有一天我在车子内,当你由车外看我,你不会知道我是没有手和脚的,你只会看见我英俊的面孔。一天,我们一起停在交通灯前,有一辆车就驶在我们旁边,那位女孩看着我,我心里想:很酷!不如一起玩玩,我知道那女孩没可能知道我是没有四肢的,于是我看着她,我用嘴抓着安全带,然后把它松开,就在车子的座位上,我就这样做(在台上用身体转了个圈,台下又使一阵笑声),她目瞪口呆(学目瞪口呆)!她说:你把我吓坏了!真酷。”
 
  “我有几样东西给大家看,我会打鼓,大家相信吗?我真的会打鼓,我把鼓棍放在我的嘴里,不,说笑的!其实我有一件打鼓器(用小脚在打鼓器上打鼓),这是什么?它是一块有16个按钮的垫,每个按钮代表一种响声,知道吗?所以我不只是在按播放,那么简单,看到我的脚掌吗?这是认真的(脚掌打击按钮),啊,(打了一段鼓点)大家喜欢吗?(台下一片掌声)这像你们喜欢的摇滚或流行音乐,还有这个声音,呀呀。声音可调大一点吗?请我我多点,呀呀,得声音,好,这就像,(敲击了一串鼓点,并伴随着嘴的伴奏)大家喜欢吗?若安装这个在我的轮椅上,让我一边驾驶,一边玩这个技术,就真够酷了!再加上特别音效,一,二,三,四,(开始演奏摇滚乐)喜欢吗?(喜欢!)真够酷吗?(对的!)(一片掌声)美妙!”

插播一下,不想看文字的朋友,可以看尼克胡哲励志演讲视频(中英字幕)
 
  “我有一格网球,想给大家看我能把它踢多远,许多人都很惊讶说:你怎可以办到的?我很想示范给大家看,很棒的!有自愿者帮忙接球吗?让我看看,就是你,你好吗?对,我的手指指着你,请你站起来,你好吗?你的名字是?(麦克),很高兴认识你,麦克,请你帮忙,向我指着的方向走,再走远一点,请大家让让路,请你面向着我,麦克,我现在要表演能把球踢多远,我市碧咸的超级拥护,我爱碧咸,我很喜爱他的香蕉射球,所以我正在苦练,所以,请你往后移一点,再后一点,再后一点,后一点,后一点,再后一点,我在开玩笑呢,我不能踢那么远,请回来,可以了,我只是开玩笑,(台下笑声连连)这个位置很好,我会用力踢,所以需要有足够的助跑,让我往后一点点,再后一点点,(站到了他站得桌子边缘,)再后一点点,再后一点点,呜,(做掉下桌的动作)跟大家开玩笑呢,只想看看能否吓大家一跳。预备好没有?当你接到球,别抛回给我,因为我不能接球的,明白吗?你准备好了吗?来了,当你接到球,请你来台前,预备,一,二,(踢出网球,麦克接到球)你们看,(掌声一片),跳上来,往这边来,很好,麦克,你今天好吗?(很好)非常好,请你拿着球,请留步,我需要你的帮忙,请你站在这里,面向大家,今天有新鲜的事情发生吗?学校生活如何?很沉闷?学到东西吗?没有?做完功课吗?没有?好的,好,不跟你开玩笑,我想跟你玩一个很棒的游戏,请你把右手放在桌子上,很漂亮的戒指啊,我也要为我的脚趾找来同样漂亮的戒指,有一天,我也要带一只手表,无论如何,现在请把手放在这里,我们会玩一个游戏,名叫拍打,我不知道你会否玩这个游戏,简单来说,我会怕打你,明白吗?我如果这样做,在我怕打你前,把手移开,这是你的手和我的小鸡腿的竞赛,你有五次机会,若五次中我失败一次,你便胜出,明白吗?你只要赢我一次便胜出,预备好了吗?你刚才说今天是你的好日子吗?恐怕现在要改变了,开玩笑阿,准备好了吗?你怕不怕?不怕?呀,好了,预备好啊,第一次,当我这样做,你要快点避开(举起脚拍打),正确,要快点啊,预备好吗?第一次,(打到),这是第一次,第二次,(哦,一声,打到)第三次,我会让你容易一点,这次我会面向另一方,及闭上眼睛,他的手在桌上吗?我已经熟练,不会被你欺骗,现在我闭上眼睛,你的手在吗?他的手在桌上吗?(在)预备好吗?(打中)第四次,(小声说)我会让你赢的,好吗?喔(托的很长音,并慢动作的拍打)给我一个拥抱吧,我爱你,请给他热烈的掌声,多谢你,麦克。”
 
  “这里有一个电话,不是我的手提电话,它是普通的电话,我刚从墙上拆下来,我想示范把它抛上我的肩膀,非常酷的,可是不会保证在第一次就能成功,当你失败时,可以怎么办呢?(再尝试)非常好,谁可以给我已阵电话铃声吗?(玲玲)谢谢,谢谢,(提起电筒)我来了,预备好吗?(笑,有脚抛话筒到肩上)这样棒吗?(热烈的掌声)真棒。"
 
  尼克胡哲演讲稿中文版(第二部分)
 
  "我想告诉大家,我起初上学的时候,很多人奚落我,很多人都喜欢互相嘲笑,在人家面前取笑说:你很肥胖,你很肥胖,你必须减肥,当你回家,看着镜子的自己,说,噢,我真的很胖,许多人喜欢嘲笑别人,你太矮,你太高,你长得太,等等,你的头发是怎样,其实这并不重要,但情况是,当你在学校中,在成长过程中,你看紧别人怎样看你的外表,你自己注重,因为其他人注重,为什么?为什么要注重外表?因为倘若别人不喜欢你,那谁会喜欢你?如果他们不接纳你,那谁会?我们所恐惧的事孤单,害怕我们不够好,我们要改变自己,有许多人奚落我,说:力克,你真怪.没有人事你真正的朋友,你不能做这些,不能做那些,我不能改变这些事,不是改换发行,所有事情便变得顺利,不是的,
 
  而是,我不能改变现状,我不能一天醒来,说,给我手和脚,我要手和脚,明白吗?
 
  我不能找位健身教练帮我练出手和脚,我在开玩笑呢,健身教练不能做到的,请别人帮忙时,也不能真的请他给我一双手,真的很困难,因为别人奚落我,我开始相信我不够好,我开始相信我是失败者,相信我永远都不会被人喜爱或接纳,真的很困难,我对自己说:我不能像其他人一样,不能到足球场踢球,不能骑脚踏车,不能玩滑板等等,
 
  我开始抑郁,我在想,我为了什么而活?活着只为了等待死亡吗?生存不是有目的吗?生命不是有目标吗?
 
  我有许多问题,但却没有答案,我问父母,为何会这样发生?我问医生,为何会这样?他们全都不知道答案,生命中有些东西是我们不能控制及改变的,我们只能接受,我们有的选择,就是放弃,或继续生活下去,我想问大家,你相信什么?你相信自己,还是相信其他人对你的判断呢?你相信别人说你是失败者?相信无人喜欢你?相信无人真正关心你?我意思不是你需要某人?对你说:我很喜欢你,关心你,而是指,别人看扁你,奚落你,甚至没有放你在眼内,别人问候你,你回答:很好。事实上你并不好,但他们永远不会察觉,生命是很有趣的,生命是一个旅程,大家看见这部电话吗?比方说,我想往电话那方去,我要由这位置开始,走到电话那方去,我不能单靠默想,对吗?或是从空气中漂浮过去?这不会有作用的,发出古怪响声,不会有作用的,所以我需要一步,一步,一步,地走出去,你只可每次走一步,不管你一步有多大,仍是每次一步,总不能一次走两步,明白吗?是一步一步的向前走,你可向这方向走或可向那方向走,有时候你迷路,有时候你跌倒,为了说明这一点,我打算从桌上跳下来,然后翻腾落地,酷吗?预备好吗?有个时钟在地上?可以把它移开吗?很好,大家准备好了吗?让我知道大家准本好了,开始,一,二,(假跳)我开玩笑而已,请把时钟放回原处,若我这样做,我的手会折断的,人生旅途中,你或会像这样跌倒,预备好吗?(吁吁吁,模拟坠落声音),嗨,你好,当你跌倒的时候,该怎么办?站起来,所有人也知道要重新站起来,若我不站起来,什么地方也不能去,若我不站起来,什么地方也不能去,当你在某些时刻跌倒,你感到再无力气站起来,所以,你带着面具上学,假装一切安好,然后你回家,躺在床上,没有人看见你,你也不用取悦任何人,你就是你,然后恐惧来了,当踏进家门,你便用这种恐惧,或许那是个破碎的家,或许你的生命中感到疑惑,或许你不肯定将来的事,而使你恐惧,或许你担心别人怎样评价你,那恐惧会使你的生命瘫痪,我今天想问大家,你觉得有盼望吗?我在这里,面向着地,没有手和脚,我应该没可能自己站起来,你回家把弟妹的手脚绑起来,再把他们推到,看他们要多久才再站起来,你可以跟他们说:明天再见,我应该没可能自己站起来,但事实并非如此,我尝试一百次站起来,若一百次也失败,若我失败后,便放弃,我能再站起来吗?不能够,若失败后,我再尝试,失败后继续尝试,只要不断尝试,总有站起来的希望,只要你不放弃,那就不会是个终结,只要你仍在这里,总有再站起来的机会,仍然有盼望,我今天不使对你说,我明白你的痛楚,我未曾经历被虐待的痛楚,我未曾被叫作,胖子,或患上饮食失调症,我未曾经历家庭破碎的痛苦,我不明白这些感受,但我明白破碎心灵的痛苦,我知道孤单时针么一回事,我在耶稣基督里找到力量,你也该找出你力量的来源,我想你明白一切还未终结,关键是你要在未段如何行动,你会在未段权利行动吗?你定会找到重新站起来的力量,就像这样,(用头顶着桌面,身体蠕动着,往他左边的一部电话机前移动,用头顶在电话机上,调整身体,停了一下,然后直立起身体,台下一片掌声。)”
 
  “我怎么去除抑郁,成为今天的我?八岁的时候,我只注目在缺乏的东西上,我渴望有手和脚,我渴望能做这些,但我又能做什么,我有一个选择,今天我要和大家分享:选择,我可选择为着没有四肢而愤怒,或是因我仍有小鸡腿而感恩,我仍可以做很多事情,在家里我可以刷牙,梳头,在早晨自理仪容,现在我甚至可以环游世界,真奇妙,但我要问自己几条问题,第一个问题是,我是谁?我是谁?我是力克胡哲,但我确实是谁?奇怪的是,你身边的朋友似乎可以决定你是谁?因而你改变了自己,中学期间,同学都说粗话,所以我开始说粗话,为什么?因为说粗话很酷,人人都说粗话的,所以我不想离群,我想被接纳,所以我开始说粗话,我去参加排队,所有人都饮酒,我也饮,为什么,因为身边的人都这样做,没什么大不了,于是你开始失去自己,你开始把安全感建立在短暂的事上,你开始把快乐建立在不会长久的事上,你可以让自己酩酊大醉,但第二天早上,在头疼中醉醒过来,仍要面对同样的问题,你希望余下人生,一来药物才得到开心吗?人人都说,别滥用药物,但为何我们仍然走近它,使出于好奇心?朋辈压力?或是要逃避现实?基本上,有三个原因,令我们滥药,滥交和醉酒,为什么?因为感觉很好,你想要某些东西,你便要得到,你想买些东西,你储钱去买,为什么?因那会令你开心,向着错误的方向举步,只会带你远离梦想,你说,力克,不用担心,药物和酒精不会使我远离梦想,和目标的,滥交也不会,但我要告诉大家,这是会的,因为滥药,醉酒会令你泥足深陷,你迟早会发现的,你不断尝试新的药物,酒精,回到学校,同学们取笑你,或因你考试成绩欠佳,父母说你是失败者,你开始相信身边的谎言,例如,你不够好,没有人喜欢你,你一生不会做出什么好事来,你一生都不能倒成梦想或目标,错误的步伐,使你更接近,控诉的声音说,你不够好,你不够好,你只多走一步,就跌倒了,你是有选择的,今天你可选择怎样走下一步,让我问大家,你知道自己是谁吗?想知道我认为你是谁?你注重朋友怎样看你,重视他们给你的意见,你想知我是谁?想知我怎样看你吗?我现在就告诉你,我不介意你外表如何,真的,如果你体重四百公斤,我也会走到你面前,拥抱你,说我爱你,我不介意你是高或矮,肥或瘦,我全不介意,我不介意你的外表,我不介意你是否有专长,不介意你是否喜欢摇滚乐,我不介意,我不介意你是否数学天才或是运动健将,或是没有任何专长,我告诉你,你本来的样子已经是极美了,许多年轻人照镜时,希望自己有另一个体型,女孩子们,你本来的样子确实很美丽,你很美,非常漂亮,你们本来的样子就是很可爱,男孩子们,你很棒,不时因为你的外表,当大家第一次看到我时,都会替我难过,现在你还会替我难过吗?不会,为什么?因为你认识我是谁?难道你忘了我市没有手和脚?你要成为我的朋友吗?当然要,为什么?因为你认识我,又喜欢我,尽管我市没有手和脚阿,你会说,那又如何?当你说,我有这些,我没有那些,我会说,那又如何,我不介意。你比钻石更宝贵,比世上所有的钻石更贵重,你们每一颗心都是珍贵的,你们是可以做些事的,不单是做一点事,你们更可活出生命。人生不会常常顺利,不会时刻灿烂,但当你找到生命目标时,就值得好好地过,你说,力克,我不知道有什么目标,父母想我做这些,老师想我做那些,朋友要我做别的,我真不知该怎办。我变得四分五裂,不知该怎办,为你自己作抉择不吧,你不懂的怎样做,那你究竟相信谁?跟从你的心吧,假若那就是你想成为的人,假若那就是你想达成的,便朝着此方向去吧,每天每次走一步,那部电话似乎离你很远,你认为没可能伸手摸它,若电话就在房间最后的位置,我怎样能离开桌子到那处呢?我不能够,我怎能去到那里呢?我不能够,但世上没有不可能的事,假若你的梦想无法实现,你想成为飞机师,但因视力或高度不合乎要求,我也认识一些不能成为飞机师的朋友,但他们现在有真心喜爱的工作,万事互相效力,凡事定有美意,我就有这样的经历,没有手和脚一点好处也没有,如果我哒一下手指,然后令你的手脚消失了,你还会喜欢我吗?不会的,你会追逐我,用头撞我,是吗?因为没有四肢一点好处也没有,但我爱我的生命,为什么?因为我看见生命的目标,因为我没有手和脚所以你们全都在这里听我分享,可能这是你们最专心聆听演讲的一次,许多讲员都令人沉闷,他们什么都不懂,你就是这样想的,我也曾是学生,我也曾认为他们什么都不懂,以前我不理会别人的话,他们根本不明白我的经历,他们怎会明白痛苦,但大家见到我,直到我经历什么痛苦,我虽然第一次跟大家见面,你们便相信我真心的说,我爱你,你虽然不很认识我,但你真的相信我是爱你。这就是无条件的爱,你不需作任何事去令我爱你,我就是爱你为什么?我就是爱你,为什么?因为爱,就是无条件的爱,这部单是关乎你的事,你身边的人又如何,倘若你没有人生目标,你说,力克,我不知道该怎么做,我希望做到这些,但又认为这不可能发生,许多人跟我说,力克,我没有目标,不知道可做些什么。让我问大家一个问题,如果你一生都充满痛苦,充满眼泪,到人生的尽头时,你却救了别人的性命,你的生命过的有价值吗?如果你能拯救别人的性命,你的痛苦又价值吗?请想象一下,若你看见有人将被车辗过,你飞身拯救那些人脱险,以这例子说,你救了别人一命,那你的生命又价值吗?我不知道,又或说,你遇上很大的困难,你现在便想放弃,想象一下,有一个比你年长十年的人,完全经历过你的困难,到你面前说,我明白你的感受,我曾经跟你一样的痛苦及困境,但我认然活着。这能鼓励你吗?这样可以救你的生命吗?是会的。这不就是生存的目标吗?所以我对你们有信心,这就是生存的最大目标,就是去爱,这听起来很过时,但我不介意你怎样说,我爱身边的人,因为爱里有自由和能力,每天回到学校,你都有一个选择,选择嘲笑别人,说三道四。但你也可以上前鼓励他们,你可以对别人说,你今天很好看啊。当你问候他们,他们说过的不错,但你知道事实并非如此,请再问一次,你近况究竟怎样呢?你能救人一命,你不相信吗?让我告诉你,当我六岁,一年级的时候,一天内共有十二个人人嘲笑我,是十二个,下午二时五十分,下课的时候,我对自己说,今天如果在多一个人取消我,那就算吧,我要放弃了。我驾着轮椅BMW7去找父母,有一位女孩子,喊我的名字说,嗯,力克。我心想,时候到了,她走到我面前说,力克,我只想告诉你,你今天看来很好啊。这令我哑口无言,鼓励是有能力的,你可以救人一命。我向着这个方向走,心里说着,没有人喜欢我,我会一事无成,没有人愿意跟我结婚,等等。走到了绝望边缘,只需多一个人说我不够好,我便倒下去了,你想过自己会推倒别人吗?你不知道校内多少人患上饮食失调症,你不知道校内多少人,想伤害自己,他们隐藏着,你不知道多少人厌恶生命,你就是导致他们倒下的原因之一,能想象吗?认真的,就只因为你想找到乐趣,长大吧,长大吧,在余下的日子,我挑战你们,不再嘲笑身边的人,我挑战你们,可以做到吗?你会说,不不会这样做,但其他人会,要看见改变,你自己先改变吧,然后去改变其他人,人人都应该有朋友的,你看到一些人没有朋友吗?你为何不成为他们的朋友?因为你害怕别人怎样看你,醒来,一起行动起来,拥抱,活出生命吧.我热爱我的生命,没有东西可以阻止我,我时刻都快乐吗?不,我不是每时每刻都快乐,我会伤心,有时候会哭,不是因为没有手和脚,那倒容易接受,我是指那些令我伤心挂怀的事,当我所爱的人受伤了,而我却不能做什么,才令我很痛苦。我们都曾经历过一些事情,我们都尝试寻找开心,你会找到的,因为我也找到了,举例说,你要学习新事吗?在你学习之前,已经有人学会了,任何曾经有人学会的事情,你都可以学会,合理吗?你怎直到这是黑色?因为有人教导你这是黑色,那人曾被教导这是黑色,当那人教导你时,你便知道这是黑色,没有什么是你不能学会的,明白吗?但我们不是全都擅长数学,不是全都擅长体育,或能认出所有颜色,这些都不重要,寻找你喜爱做的事,我喜欢去爱人,我爱鼓励别人,救人性命时世上最伟大的事业,不会所有人都是演讲家,不可能所有人做相同的事,否则世界也疯了,你想做什么,有比生命更重要的吗?我已经有了,那就是上帝,若你也想认识他,便非常好,我很爱你们,非常爱你们,你有权选择怎样过你的人生,我选择了结婚前保持贞洁,事实胜于雄辩,为我的妻子等待是值得的,我们曾否有错误的决定?是有的,错误的决定会带来坏的后果吗?是会的,我可以多讲半小时,分享滥药,滥交和醉酒的后果,但我不像说教,我不想再这里宣传禁毒,但别相信你已经明白一切,人们说,我不认识的东西不会杀害我,那是非常愚蠢的说法,假设我脑里有个肿瘤,我不知道它的存在,它人会损害我吗?会啊,傻瓜,当然会,看看我和我的生命,我已为自己作出选择,这就是今天的我,今天我热爱我的生命,很棒,对不起,我预备张,椅子,好多了,翘起腿来休息,我想跟你们说我妻子的事,我仍未结婚,尚未知谁是我的妻子,不要紧,我知道她将会出现,她将会出现,女孩子,虽然你未有男朋友,但那不代表你不漂亮,或是没有人爱你,你不需要男朋友,不需要用你的身体作为工具,去使自己感到有人需要你。我的太太就快出现,我没法牵着她的手,但我不需要用手才可抱着她的心,她的心是我最想拥抱的,告诉你们,真正的男人会等待,真正的男人不会让你陷入危险中,特别是你俩不确定会否共度余生,所以我没有婚前性关系,因为还未知道会跟谁结婚,那为何要和其他人同谁?那是愚蠢的,就是为了暂时的兴奋?没有意思,我只会和我的另一半分享性,就是我唯一的女人,我是她的男人,非常珍贵,我们将会一起养育小孩,我孩子哭时,我怎能拥抱他们呢?我曾为此哀伤,我会成为怎样的父亲?有一位很可爱的女孩,是我的朋友的女儿,她两岁半,戴着粉红色帽子,穿着粉红色裙子,和我的高度相约,在家聚散去的时候,她向每一个人拥抱道别,她到我面前,我当时坐在地上,她看着我,我觉得好吧,她看着我,我在想,两岁半的小女孩能在想什么?很奇怪的情景,她花了25秒看着我,然后明白了一些事情,像恍然大悟,我发现我没有手去拥抱,当她拥抱我的时候,她把双手放在背后,她就用脖子来拥抱我,真可爱,太美丽了,为何我在这里告诉我爱你?你会安然度过一切,我不是说日后每天能陪伴你,也不是说我完全明白,你的难处,我只希望你会记着我的微笑,(微笑起来,台下一阵笑声),记着我说过的话,你有权选择去鼓励别人,还是推到别人,你有权选择行进你的梦想,或是以短暂的事物代替,你有权选择去放弃,或是努力向前,放弃,或是起来,当你失败的时候,继续尝试,不断尝试。我请你闭上眼睛,若你不闭上眼睛,看着地面也行,请不要与身边的人说话,我要问你,你好吗?你背负着什么重担,你忍了什么眼泪?你隐藏了什么痛苦,什么恐惧?你不需要紧紧抓着这些恐惧,只需每次行出一步,不是说这些恐惧一天内全部消失,但你能原谅伤害你的人吗?因为一直从宽恕开始,你可以立定心志,每当有人奚落你时,你可转向鼓励另一个人吗?想象一下,你在一个空旷的地方,没有建筑物,没有遮蔽处,你头上正刮着风暴,那风暴就是生命里的逆境,我不想告诉别人,因为一方面他们不会明白,另一方面,他们帮不到你,你在风暴中,你跪下,你寒冷,你软弱,你以为这是生命的终结了,你不是仍在生存吗?你仍在,你不用独自面对,告诉辅导员,告诉你信任的人,你可以告诉任何人,而我则会告诉耶稣,抓住这些你信任的人,想象他们现在对你说,他们不能阻止风暴,但他们会支撑着你,给你温柔,直到风暴过去,虽然风暴仍在,但他们会支持你,你会活着,因为他们一直陪着你,想一想你的朋友,你看着他们的眼睛,直到他们并不关心,你出席派队,你看见他们,你知道他们的伤痕,而每一个人都尝试掩饰,今天你可以鼓励一些人吗?做出选择,选择做美好的事情,抓住那希望,打开眼睛,看着我,眼泪能洗清你灵魂的窗子,流泪后,你会感到很舒畅和释放,我今天到来,要拥抱你,我是拥抱机器,若你需要拥抱,几分钟后,我会由这里下来,去另一边,转交位,摄影机后面有一张桌子,我想在那里拥抱你,我想你拥抱我像从未拥抱过人一样,因为拥抱有医治的能力,我想你知道我真的很爱你们,永远不要放弃自己,并且紧记无论你本相如何,总有人会相信你和爱你。

尼克胡哲演讲稿英文版


  第一部分
 
  “See the Body”
 
  一段小孩的尖叫声,好受欢迎啊!
 
  Thank you, thank you very much. Good morning every body.
 
  Students:   Morning!
 
  Morning, how are you doing?
 
  Students: Good.
 
  You are fine?
 
  Students: Yeah.
 
  Oh sweet, nice to see you. My name is Nick Vujicic and it’s a pleasure to be with you. I have a wheel chair over there. It’s my BMW 7 series. I am gonna take it to “pick my ride”(好像是电视节目) and get some spinning rings on it. and the..You know those full-picked cars you know with hydraulic stuff, you know how they’re downs and around stuff. I wanna give my wheel chair down stuff.(1:55)(这一段他真的很乐观)。 why? If I can cross the road and go bang bang bang! (他的动作也很搞笑 下面的学生也都笑了)。It’s really cool to drive that thing around that I have no arms and no legs and I was actually born in this way. And There is no medical reason why these happen. So I have no limbs, but I have a little chicken drumstick. And we call this chicken drumstick, because first of all it looks like one and second of all sometimes my dog thinks it’s one. And I tell you man so funny it comes up to start biting on that. I push(象声词,很幽默) him in the head a couple of times. It’s nuts ,man. (底下的学生又笑了,看来他真的可以和孩子打成一片)。It’s  so cool man. I love to swim as well and I actually float like a life jacket. I float up right like this and I have my little motor down here,and I go ‘bow-’this  right. And it’s so funny when people see me for the first time. It’s so cool you’re kids freaked out you know how to say? I tell you this little boy came up to me and he goes “what happened?”(呵呵 语调很搞怪 真的很开朗) and I went up to him, and I goes:” cigarettes!”. (在逗小孩玩的时候还不忘进行‘吸烟有害健康的教育‘) and there was one girl who saw me and she goes “mummy! Look, it’s an alien!” (学惊慌失措的女生学的很像,呵呵,很有表演天赋)So I went up to her and I went:” ah~~” she is like ah~~. I ran after her and said:” I am gonna eat you!”(哈哈,他奔跑的动作很搞笑) You know,Freak her out! So with my little foot here, I can also write. This is my pen here. I can actually write and type with my foot but I learn how to draw and all this a lot things. That’s pretty cool. I learn how to type 43 words in a minute on the normal computer. So it’s like heeling-toe heeling-toe combination and I am learning sign language with my foot I ‘mma learn it ready? Peace(为什么我会想到piss,呵呵). Is that cool? Very cool. Anyway, we gonna have some fun today. And I just gonna tell you the funny story of all. It’s so funny. I was in a car one day. When you see me from the outside of the car, you have no idea that I have no arms and no legs right? You just see my gorgeous face. (呵呵其实他长的算是帅的) when the traffic lights one day, and this car comes up next to us. And this girl looked at me and I am like:” cool! Let’s have some fun here.” I know that she has no clue that I have no limbs so I looked at her, I grabbed the seat belt in my mouth and loose it like this and did it in the car seat, I just did this (亏他想的出来这种招数,佩服!拥有童心。呵呵) and she was like ,she was like“you freak me out man!” It’s very cool. Anyway, I have a couple of things to show you. I play drums. Do you believe me?
 
  Students: yeah! (看来经过之前的搞怪,底下的小学生都肯定认为他是无所不能的人了!)
 
  I actually play drums; I get the drumstick in my teeth. I am just joking. Look I have drum machine up here and we just gonna. So what it is? Basically it’s a pad right? In this like 16 buttons and so each button represents a sound right? So I am not pressing player or anything like that. You see my foot? All right, it’s like serious. (强悍, solo时间)
 
  Do you like that?
 
  Students: yeah! (大家长时间的鼓掌)
 
  So that’s sort of more like your rocking, you know, sort of pop. Whatever, but then you got ah ah. Can I have some more volume? Please give me some.
 
  ***(难道是juice?) right here we go. So It’s like. Do you like that? That would be very cool if I can get this on my wheel chair and play while I am driving? And I get some “tech”” online here we go….1,2,3,4
 
  (又是一段强悍的solo)
 
  Hey guys, do you like that?
 
  Is that cool?
 
  Beautiful. So I have a tennis ball here. I just want to show you how far I can kick this thing. And a lot of people are like freaked out, you know, how can you do that! And I just want to show you. It’s very very cool. Can I have a volunteer please to catch the ball for me? Ah let’s see, let’s see, let’s see, sure, I will get you. How are you doing? Yes, you, my finger point at you. Stand up. How are you doing? Beautiful. What’s your name?
 
  Student: Jack.
 
  Was it?
 
  Jack: Jack.
 
  Jack, nice to meet to you today. Now can I get you to do me a favor? And probably just go up that way , see my finger point that way? Up that way a little bit. Can you guys make a little bit path for him to go in the path a little bit? Beautiful, now just face me Jack. Now I just want to show every body how far I can actually boot this thing. I am a big fan to David Beckham. I love David Beckham. I love how he curves that ball. So I am practicing this thing. You know what I mean? Just move back, keep moving back, keep on back back……keep on back back I am joking, I can’t give that far. Come forward. It’s all good. I was just joking. Right, there is good. Right, there is good. Now that’s a pretty big kick so I am gonna take a little bit of run-up here. Oh I think it’s so good. (呵呵, 又一次耍了底下的学生) I just want to see if I can get you scared a little bit. All right. Here we go. Are you ready right now when you get this ball, don’t throw it back because I can’t catch, do you understand me? Are you ready? Here we go, when you get this ball just come up here on the stage. Is that cool,Ready, 1, 2. (又一次强悍的表演).Look at that… Jump up right, on this side. Beautiful, now Jack, have you had a good day today?  ‘Yeah.’’Thanks good,I will get you to hold the ball for me.(把球扔到台下) Wait…I haven’t done with you yet right?All right,you just Stand here ,face the crowd.  So anything new happened in you life today? School, out school, boring, learn anything? No.Is school or there something cool? did you homework? No. All right,here we go.I just want to be real with you. There’s a cool game I wanna play with you. That’s cool. I am gonna get your right hand on the table. All right that’s a cool ring. I gonna give me a toe ring. You know what I mean? One day I am gonna give me a swiss watch too. Anyway, just put the whole hand on here. Beautiful, now, what we gonna do, we gonna play a game called slapers. Ok? Now I don’t know if you know this game. Basically, I am gonna slap you,Ok?and if you..when I go like this, you should move away this before I get you, so it’s a race between your hand and the chicken drumstick. All right?So what gonna happen if you got 5 shocks?Ok? If I miss one out of the 5, you win. So that make sense? You only beat me once to win. Are you ready? You said you are having a good day today yet?This’s good.This gonna change. I am joking. Are you ready? Are you scared? You are not scared. Are you ready? No.1. so when I go like this, you go like? Exactly. Ok you should be quicker.(他的‘小鸡腿’居然那么快!) it’sNo1..No2..No.3. I make it easier for you. I even look away and I’ll close my eyes. Ok, now is his hand still there? I have done this a couple of times. You can’t cheat on it. All right. Now I close my eyes. Your hand there? Is his hand there? Are you ready? (啊, 又输了) All right. No.4. I will let you win, ok? (居然表演慢动作,囧) Give me a hug, I love you. Give him applause guys. Thank you very much Jack. (全场的气氛又一次的被调动了)
 
  I have got a phone up here. It is not my cell phone. It’s a normal phone. I just ripped it out from the wall. I am gonna show you how I can actually flick this phone onto my shoulder. It’s very cool. It’s actually not always guaranteed that it gonna happen the first time. So what happens when you fail?
 
  Students: Try again.
 
  Very good! Very good! So can someone give me a sound for ringing phone please.
 
  Students: ding-ling-ling~~.
 
  Thank you, thank you. I am coming. (哈哈,表演得很投入) ready?(呵呵,又是对着台下的一阵‘傻笑’)。Hey, is that cool? (台下又是一阵尖叫)Awesome!
 
  第二部分
 
  I want to talk about..when I started, you know, go to school and lots of people put me down. You know people tease each other I mean people come up and say, ”Hey! you are fat, you are fat , you are fat , you are fat ,..you know, you need to lose some weight” when you go home you look at yourself in the mirror and go “em~ I’m fat!”right?So many people tease each other. As you know, you’re too short, too high, you look like whatever, different hair and all that, It doesn't matter.
 
  Seeing thing is, when you’re at school, when you grow up in life, you actually saw it matters to people how you look.
 
  And then it matters to you because it matters to others.
 
  Why? why does it matters how you look?
 
  Because, if they don’t like you, then who will?
 
  If they don’t accept you, then who will?
 
  And the fear that have is that we gonna be alone, that we’re not good enough.
 
  We’re going to change ourselves.
 
  You know so many people put me down and say “Nick, you look so weird!No one is really your friend. You can’t do this, You can’t do that.”
 
  And I couldn’t change anything, I couldn’t change /fix my hair one day and everything goes fine.
 
  It isn’t like you know whatever, I couldn’t change my circumstance!
 
  I couldn’t just one day wake up and say“Hey!Give me arms and legs.I need arms and legs.”
 
  You know mean like, I went to a body builder, you know, can you give me arms and legs.
 
  I’m joking. Hehe, Body builder cannot get it. Right ? I get to people and ask them to give a hand you know I was joking.
 
  But It was so hard because people put me down.
 
  I started believing that I was not good enough.
 
  I started to believe that I was a failure, thus never ever be somebody who people will like and people will accept.
 
  And it is so hard, man, I say to myself:
 
  ”I can’t go on soccer like everybody else. I can’t ride on my bike ,I can’t skate on this or that things .”
 
  I start getting depressed.
 
  I thought what kind of purpose I have to live, I just here to live to die? I mean.
 
  Isn't there a purpose for me ?
 
  Isn't there a purpose in life?
 
  And i have questions that are no answers. I asked my mom and dad why this happened. I asked doctor why this happened. They don’t know.
 
  There is something in life that is of out of your control, that you cannot change and you're going to live with.
 
  The choices we have is either to give up or keep on going.
 
  I gonna to ask you what you’re gonna to believe?
 
  Are you going to believe in yourself?
 
  Are you going to believe everybody's judgement on you?
 
  Are you going to believe people when they say that you are a failure and no one really likes you or cares about you?
 
  Hey, I don’t mean that you don’t need someone who really come up and say to you “Hey, I really like you and care about you.”
 
  No, it is not that, it is the fact that people put you down.
 
  People don’t even look you in the eye. People ask how you are and you say fine but actually you are not fine and they don’t know that, they never know that.
 
  I’ll tell you that life is interesting, life is a journey.
 
  See this phone here. Let’s say that I wanna go to the phone and I start from moving here. Now to get to the phone, is that  i cannot start from meditating(冥想)and going hum~~ ,right? And float across the air, right? It is some kind do not work. Hmm and wuu, It is some kind do not work. I have to take one step at a time, one step at a time, one step at a time.
 
  You can only take one step at a time.
 
  I don’t care how big your step is. Because it is only one step at a time .
 
  You can’t do two steps in one, understand? So it is like one step at a time.
 
  You take this step in this direction and you take that step in that direction. So sometimes you get lost in the way and sometimes you fell down.
 
  To illustrate my point, I gonna jump off the table and drop back twist and land in the floor. Ok, is that cool? Are you ready? There is a clock down there, can you move the clock away for a little second? Beautiful, beautiful, all right, are you ready? Just let me know when you’re ready. Are you guys ready, Ok, 1,2,… I’m joking man. Is that serious?Please put that back. If I do that I broke my arms or something, you know what I mean?
 
  But honestly, along the way you might fall down like this. Ready? 倒下!Hello!
 
  So what will you do when you fall down? “Get back up!” everybody knows about get back up. Because I stop walking I cannot get anywhere.
 
  But I gonna tell you sometimes in life when you fall down, you feel lacking strength to get back up. So you put on a mask in your face when you go to school. Pretend that everything is OK when it is not. And you go home, land your bag when no one is looking at you.
 
  You don’t have to oppress anybody. You are yourself.
 
  And fear comes in. You know the feel is there when you walk into your house.
 
  Maybe it is a broken home. Maybe you have doubt in your life? Maybe you don’t know for sure what is gonna happen in the future and it scares you. Maybe worry about what people think of you, what people say about you.
 
  You see that fear will paralyze (瘫痪) you.
 
  I just wanna ask you today “Do you think you have hope?”
 
  Because I tell you, I am down here, face down, and I have no arms and legs.
 
  It should be impossible for me to get back up.
 
  I mean when you go home and you tie the arms and legs of your brothers and sisters. And like push them down and see how long it is gonna take them to get back up. You know what I mean. You see, you can tell them “See you tomorrow”.
 
  As for me, you may think It should be impossible for me to get back up, but actually it is not.
 
  You see i will try one hundred times to get back up, and if i fail i give up, do you think i can ever get back up? No. But if i fail, i try again, and again and again. For as long as i try, there is a chance i can get back up. Do that make sense?
 
  It is not the end until you give it up.
 
  And just the fact that you are here, it should persuade you that you have another chance to get back up. There is still hope. I’m not here today to tell you that i understand your pain. I don’t know how it feels to be abused. I don’t know how it feels to feel so fat and you just gonna eating disorder.  I don’t know how it feels with a broken home. I don’t know how it feels.
 
  But i know how it feels with a broken heart and i know how it feels to be alone.
 
  And I want you to know that I found my strength from Jesus Crisis .
 
  You’re gonna to find your strength from where you could find it in.
 
  And i just want you to know that this is not the end, it matters that how you're gonna to finish it. Are you gonna to finish it strong? And you will find that strength to get back up. like this. (爬起!!鼓掌!!)
 
  How did i get from depress to who i am today because I tell you I was depressed.
 
  When i was 8, I used to concentrate on things i didn’t have.
 
  I wished I could have arms and legs. I wished I could do this. But what can I do? You see I have a choice. That’s what we’re gonna to talk about today. Choices!!
 
  I can either to be angry for not having arms and legs or be thankful for my little chicken drumsticks. You see I can still do a lot of things. At home I can brush my teeth, comb my hairs, get myself ready in the morning. I am traveling around the world. It is amazing!
 
  But I have to ask myself a couple questions.
 
  And the first question is really “who am i? who am I? ” I am Nick Vujicic. But who is that? And it is funny that how the friends around you should determine who you are. You change yourself. You come to school and everybody swears around me at high school and I started swearing. Why do I do so? Because it is so cool thing to do, everyone swears. So I don’t wanna be left out. And I wanna be accepted so I started swearing. You go to a party and everybody is drinking so you drink. Why? Because everybody around me is doing so. Big deal! And you start losing yourself and you start putting you security on temporary things. You start putting your happiness on things that will not last.
 
  You can get drunk all your life, but in the morning , you gonna be sober with a headache, with the same problems.
 
  You wanna be high the rest of your life on drugs. Everybody says ‘Don’t do drugs’ why? Why even we go with them? So that is of curiosity or teens pressure?Or try to escape reality.
 
  Basically, 3 reasons just why we go to sex, drugs, alcohol. Why you do? Because it feels good.
 
  Ok, that is why you do that.
 
  I mean when you want something, you go and get it.
 
  You wanna buy something, you save up money you go and get it.
 
  Why? Because that will make you happy.
 
  And we take this step in a wrong direction and it will take you away from your dreams.
 
  You may say that ”Nick, don’t worry, drugs and alcohol will not take me away from my dreams and my purposes and sex all that no! ”
 
  But I will tell you, it actually will.
 
  Because you go to level in drugs, you go to level in drinking. It isn’t enough, you will find it out. You will try something new. And you also go to school and people put you down.
 
  Parents will say that you’re a failure because you fail in a test.
 
  And you start to believe the lies around you. Saying that you’re not good enough, no one will want you and you never ever doing anything good in your life and you never ever achieve your dreams and goals that you wish you have done or wish you could do.
 
  And it is the step that takes you closer to that voice saying ”you’re not good enough, you’re not good enough!” You know you just need one more step to fall.
 
  See you have choice, to know which step you’re gonna take today.
 
  Let me ask you “do you know who you are? You wanna know who I think you are?”
 
  You care about what your friends think who you are. You know you care about their opinion.
 
  Do you know who I am? You wanna know what I think who you are I will tell you now.
 
  I didn’t care how you look. Honestly, if you are 400kg, I will come up to you and give you a hug and say “I love you!”
 
  I don’t care if you’re fat short tall and thin I didn’t care. I really don’t care how you look. I don’t care what you good at ,I don’t care what you not good at. I don’t care whether you like rock music or not. I don’t care! I don’t care you’re good at mathematical or good at PE or even not good at anything…
 
  But I’m gonna tell you’re awesome just the way you are!
 
  I know so many teenagers who look at them in the mirror and wish they have a different body. Girls, you’re beautiful just the way you are! You are gorgeous! You are gorgeous! I love you just the way you are! And the boys, you are the men!
 
  Because it not how you look.
 
  When you see me for the first time ,many of your feel sorry for me. Do you feel sorry for me anymore ?No! Why? Because you know who I am. But don’t you remember I have no arms and no legs? Would you wanna be my friends? Of course ,you would. Why? Because you like who I am. But I have no arms and no legs and you gonna say, “So what?”
 
  So when you say “I don’t have this I don’t have that”, I would say ”So what? I don’t care!”
 
  You are worth more than diamonds, all the diamonds in the world. You are so precious every single one of your heart. You can do something not just something you can do but you can live ..life!
 
  Life is not always good, life is always not gorgeous.
 
  But life is worth living when you find purpose.
 
  “Nick, I don’t know what my purpose is. I don’t know! My parents want me to do this, my teachers want me to do that, my friends think I should do this..i really don’t know what to do ”
 
  And you’re tore, man! You don’t know what to do. You have to make important decision, man. You don’t know what to do. Who do you believe?
 
  Follow your heart.
 
  if that is what you wanna be
 
  if that is what you wanna do in life, then walk toward it.
 
  One day at a time.
 
  That phone might seem so far away, in fact, you might think that it is impossible for you to reach that. Let us say that the phone is all the way at the back of the room. How am I gonna get off this table, I can’t. How am I gonna get there? I can’t.
 
  But I want you to know that nothing is impossible.
 
  And if if it is impossible for your dream to come true. Let’s say you wanna be a pilot but you can’t be a pilot for some reasons maybe your eyesight, maybe your height. I know somebody who couldn’t be a pilot. They are doing sound now that they actually love to do.
 
  See all things come together for the good, that is how you see it in my life.
 
  You see it is nothing good having no arms and no legs. And if, I you know, click my finger and magically speaking and your arms and legs just disappear. Do you think you will be happy with me? No ! You come round after me and head bump me, OK?Because it is nothing good having no limps.
 
  But I love my life! Do you want know why? Because I have seen the purposes.
 
  Because I have no arms and no legs, you’re all listening to what I have to say.
 
  This is may be the most attentive you have been than any guest speak-up that everybody else are boring and what you don’t even know anyway. That is what you think, I know. Don’t worry. I go to school too. And what do you know?
 
  I don’t care other people how to say. They have no idea of what I am going through. What pain do they know? But you see me and see what kind of pain I might go through, what I gone through.
 
  Although all a sudden now I’m seeing all of you here maybe for the first time.
 
  You do believe in words in my mouth when I’m saying “I love you!” You don’t even know me but you actually believe that I do love you! You see this is unconditional love.
 
  You don’t need to do anything for me to love you. I just love you, why? I don’t know, because I just love you, it’s love, unconditional love.
 
  Not only it is about you and your life, but what about the people around you. You know if you think that you have no purpose, “Nick, I don’t know what to do. I wish I could do this but I don’t think this is gonna happen in my life. “ let me tell you so many people come up to me and say “Nick, I don’t have a purpose. I don’t know what to do in my life”
 
  Let me ask you one thing..
 
  If you went through your life full of pain full of tears, and at the end of your life you actually save somebody’s life.
 
  Is your life worth living?
 
  Is the pain worth someone’s life if you could actually save somebody?
 
  Can you imagine if you actually saw somebody nearly get run over a car and you die and get him(them) out away of the car. For instance, an example, is that your life worth living? You save somebody’s life, I don’t know.
 
  What about this? Let’s say you have a problem in your life and you wanna give up now.
 
  Imagine if someone is 10 years older who have exactly gone through the same thing you have actually got through it. And he came to you and said “I know how it feels. I have been there. I have been going through what you are going through now, but I’m still here.”
 
  Will that not encourage you ? Could that possibly save your life? Yes, isn’t that not a good purpose worth living for? And that is why I believe in you, because that is the great purpose in life. It is love, honestly. It sound like quaky. Anyone who would say I don’t care.
 
  I love people because they have freedom and power in loving people.
 
  You have a choice, everyday you come to school, to either tease about somebody, gossip about somebody, or you can go up and encourage them. You can go up to somebody and say “hey, you’re looking good today.” When you ask how they doing and they say OK, you know they are not OK and you could say “No really, how are you doing?”
 
  You can save somebody’s life.
 
  “Oh, really? Nick, I don’t think so. Cheat yourself.”
 
  When I am 6 years old, grade 1, 12 people tease me I count them all with my fingers.
 
  12 people tease me!
 
  And at the end of the day, 10 to 3, in the afternoon, I say to myself, “if one more people tease me today, that’s it. I’m gonna give up.”
 
  And I drive in my wheel chair my BMW7 series to find parents, right ?  And there is one girl who yells that “hey, Nick,” I’m thinking great, here it is.
 
  She comes to me and she says “Nick, I just want you to know that you’re looking good today.” And I’m like wow~~
 
  The power of encouragement, you can save a person’s life.
 
  I’ll tell you I was walking this way “You’re not good enough ,no one like you and you can do nothing good in your life. You can’t do this you can’t do that. No is gonna to marry you and all this things” and I get to the edge and all I need is that one more person to tell me that I’m not good enough and I’ll be down there.
 
  Do you know you could be that one person for somebody else to push over…
 
  You don’t know how many people have eating disorder in the school. You don’t know how many people want to hurt themselves in the school. They hide it. You don’t know how many people hate their lives.
 
  And you one of the reason why. Can you imaging that?
 
  Seriously, why? Just because you want to have fun. Grow up, grow up!
 
  I dare you at this school not to tease others at the rest of time.
 
  I dare you, do you think it is possible. You would say “I wouldn’t do that but everybody else  will .”
 
  Be the change you wanna see. And you be that person then you turn around. This school every person should have friends. You see somebody has no friends, why don’t you go up to that person and be their friends. Because you’re scared what people think of you.
 
  Let us do it. Wake up! Embrace, man, let’s live!
 
  I love my life, nothing stop me! Am I happy all the time ? No! I’m not happy all the time. I’m not happy, I cry sometimes. Not because I no arms and legs, just is easy. I’m gonna about thing in life.. other things make me stressed and anxious about it. The persons that I love, they hurt, but I cannot do anything about that. That will kill me !
 
  We all gone through something. We all try to find that something that happiness. You can find it. Because I found it. Take an instance, you need to learn something. Do you know for you to learn something you’re actually learn by somebody else. Anything anybody else learn you can actually learn.
 
  Make sense? Right? How do you know that it is black? Because someone has taught you it is black. Why? Because someone learn that it is black. And when you learn you know it is black by someone teaching you.
 
  Nothing is beyond your reach. Understand what I’m saying? But we’re not all good at math ,not all good at P.E…we are not good at maybe telling colors. Big deal. Find what you love to do.
 
  I love loving people, I love encouraging people. That is great thing, it is the great business in the world. Saving people’s lives, love it.
 
  But not all gonna be speakers. Not all gonna be doing same thing, that will be crazy.
 
  What do you want do in your life ? Is there something more to your life? I have something more to my life and I believe it is God. If you wanna know him it is fine.
 
  I love you guys so much. Love you very much.
 
  Choices at yours.
 
  I make a choice to keep my virginity until I marry. Good prefer than words(Facts speak louder than words.) That my wife is worth waiting for. To make wrong choices ,yes, we do. And bad consequences come from bad choices? Yes. And I can talk about half an hour telling the consequence of sex and alcohol. No, I’m not here to lecture you.
 
  I’m not here to say not to do drugs, not to do all that stuffs.
 
  But don’t believe you know everything either.
 
  “What I don’t know would not kill me”, right? Does it make sense? That is stupid. Hehh. How dumb is that? Is that gonna blame you but I don’t know it. Is it gonna kill me still? Yeah.. idiot! Of course.
 
  Look at me and my life. I make choices and this is how I am. This is what I am. And I love it.
 
  You know it is cool. Sorry, just get a seat organize, it is better. Put my feet up.
 
  I’m gonna talk about my wife. I’m not married and I don’t know who my wife is yet. Right? It is OK. I know she is coming. Fine! She is coming.
 
  Girls, just because you don’t have boyfriends it doesn’t mean that you’re not beautiful you’re not loved, you don’t need a boyfriend, you don’t need love, you don’t need to use your body to that security to make you feel that someone need you.
 
  My wife is coming.
 
  And I may not have hands to hold my wife’s hands. But I don’t need hands to hold her heart, that is what I wanna hold.
 
  To tell you, a real man would wait. A real man wouldn’t put your life in danger.
 
  If you are not 100% sure that you’ll go together for the rest of your life. That is why I don’t have sex because I don’t know who I am gonna to marry yet. Why sleep around with everybody else? It is so silly. Why? Just for temporary pleasure. No, man.
 
  It is beautiful to know that I gonna share it with my girl my girl. And I’m her guy. I love that. We’re gonna have children together, I know that. How can I hug my children when they cry.
 
  I should get depressed that what kind of father am I gonna be? cheat yourself.
 
  There was a girl, she is so cute man, one of my friends’ daughters. She was, you know, 2 and a half, she had on pink hat, she had on pink petticoat, she is about my height as well. And she came to hug everybody goodbye at the family function and she came to me. I was sit on the floor and she was looking at me. And I am like, cool? What can a 2 and a half years girl honestly be thinking about? It is so weird and she looked at me for about 25 seconds and then she realized something. It was little like bing~ you know. And she realized I had no arms to hug when she came up to hug me, she put her hands behind her back. And she hug me with her neck.
 
  I know! Isn’t that more beautiful? So beautiful!
 
  Why am I here to tell you this I love you. That everything is gonna be OK.
 
  Not to say that I’m gonna to be with you everyday to tell you that.
 
  Not to say that I understand that you’re going through.
 
  But today I have come here so that you remember my smile O(∩_∩)O~
 
  And you remember what I say:
 
  You have a choice to either up with somebody or put someone down.
 
  You either to have a choice to step towards your goals and dreams or step away going into temporary things.
 
  You have a choice either to give up or keep going.
 
  Give up or get up.
 
  When you fail, try again. And again, and again.
 
  I want you to close your eyes please. If you don’t close your eyes, that is fine, you just look at the floor, don’t talk to the person next to you please.
 
  I’m wanna ask you,
 
  “How are you? What heaviness are you carrying? What tears do you hold back? What pain what fears I kept inside?”
 
  You don’t have to hold on this fears you just take one step at a time. Not to say that one day all this fears just completely disappear. But can you forgive those who hurt you? Because that is what healing start. Every time someone put you down, will you make a decision to bring somebody else up?
 
  Pick yourself in a open area there are no building, there are no shelters. And there is a storm above you and the storm represents the situation in your life. You aren’t telling anybody you got through because first of all they would not understand, and second of all, they can’t even help you anyway.
 
  You are in a storm and you download your knee. You are cold you are weak and you feel like this is the end.
 
  Are you not still here? You are still here! You don’t have to do this alone. You can talk to counselor(辅导员), you can talk to people you trust. And you can talk to me but I talk to Jesus. That hold on that person who you might help you. And imaging right now they are saying:
 
  Though they cannot stop the storm right now, they will hold you and keep you warm until the storm passed. Because when they hold you the storm is still there but it is OK. Because they are with you all the way.
 
  Think of your friends. You look at them in the eyes and you know they maybe are not happy. You go to party and you just look at them in the eye you know they are hurting as well, everybody is trying to cover up. Can you leave somebody today?
 
  Make a choice today, to do something good. Hold on to that hope. Open your eyes, look at me.
 
  Tears clean the windows of your soul, that is why you feel good after crying.
 
  I’m here today to hug you, I’m a hugging machine.
 
  And if you want a hug, I gonna need a couple minutes to get out of this and then go to the table to the side. There is a table around the corner behind this camera. And I wanna hug you and I want you to hug me like you never hug before. Because there is healing in hugging. And I want you to know I love you guys so much. Don‘t give up and know that there is always someone out there who will believe in you and love you just the way you are!

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